Tuesday 23rd of September 2014
The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in
Many people are convinced that when they are brokenhearted, when they grieve
deeply over their losses, that God is displeased. God is sometimes seen
as a person who expects us to be happy even in the face of trauma and loss.
God is someone who asks us to ‘snap out of it’ and ‘cheer up’. As a result,
we anticipate rejection rather than compassion.
How surprising it is to hear that the Lord is close to the brokenhearted!
God does not expect cheerfulness. God does not reject us. God is compassionate
and responsive. God is close – not far away.
In dysfunctional families difficult emotions often result in withdrawal
and isolation. It is this kind of emotional distance that we now expect
from God. It is not always easy to trust God to be close to us when we are
brokenhearted. And it is not always easy to allow ourselves the vulnerability
of such closeness. But God is eager to heal us, to restore us and to save
us when our spirits are crushed.
When I was angry, Lord,
I was sent to my room.
"Don’t come out until you have a smile on your face!"
When I was sad, Lord
I was told to cheer up.
"Just snap out of it!"
Now I expect to be abandoned, Lord.
I expect to be left alone with my pain.
I expect to be lonely in my brokenness.
When I am broken hearted,
When I am crushed in spirit,
Help me to rest in your promise to be close.
Help me to rest in your promise to save.
Copyright 2014 Dale and Juanita Ryan
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