i always wanted a church that would speak about this but never found one. we are too perfect as christians to think that the girl in the row in front of us at church would be great to sleep with. i would not be allowed alone with anyone in my church if i went to the pastor and said hey guess who is a sexaholic?
besides if i had enough faith it would go away.. LOL.

one day we will be free to discuss this in church but i’m will be dead by then from old age.

if you suffer go to sa.org and look for a group near you, get a sponsor who has something you want (not one you can relate to) and work the program, ie. the 12 steps. it will work if you work it.

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