Comments on: Beyond Victimization http://www.nacronline.com Thu, 19 Jan 2012 16:40:09 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Laura http://www.nacronline.com/addictions/beyond-victimization/comment-page-1#comment-40590 Laura Wed, 28 Dec 2011 02:52:02 +0000 http://www.christiansurvivors.com/cri/nacr/wordpress/?page_id=84#comment-40590 I've been trying to find something like this for a bit now, and I've been praying about it. My boyfriend has had a lot of things happen to him. I've heard all the stories, and i hear them frequently from him. He seems to look to me to get his energy. It seems he always has this cloud of impending doom over his head. I try to give him good advice every time he feels this way. But he seems to dismiss me. He thinks no matter what he does or will do will always end up failing. I try to give him encouragement but it doesn't work most of the time. I am hoping by buying this book for him will help. It would make things so much better if he could support his own self emotionally, and not feel like a victim all the time. Thank you for posting this article, God bless, Laura I’ve been trying to find something like this for a bit now, and I’ve been praying about it. My boyfriend has had a lot of things happen to him. I’ve heard all the stories, and i hear them frequently from him. He seems to look to me to get his energy. It seems he always has this cloud of impending doom over his head. I try to give him good advice every time he feels this way. But he seems to dismiss me. He thinks no matter what he does or will do will always end up failing. I try to give him encouragement but it doesn’t work most of the time. I am hoping by buying this book for him will help. It would make things so much better if he could support his own self emotionally, and not feel like a victim all the time. Thank you for posting this article,

God bless,

Laura

]]> By: Traci http://www.nacronline.com/addictions/beyond-victimization/comment-page-1#comment-33692 Traci Sun, 30 Oct 2011 21:01:21 +0000 http://www.christiansurvivors.com/cri/nacr/wordpress/?page_id=84#comment-33692 I forgot a few words. It should be I wanted my boyfriend past and present to provide me with everything I did not receive as a child. I forgot a few words. It should be I wanted my boyfriend past and present to provide me with everything I did not receive as a child.

]]> By: Traci http://www.nacronline.com/addictions/beyond-victimization/comment-page-1#comment-33687 Traci Sun, 30 Oct 2011 18:35:18 +0000 http://www.christiansurvivors.com/cri/nacr/wordpress/?page_id=84#comment-33687 This was great. I recently met the man of my dreams that I believe was sent by God. He came into town to spend a couple weeks with me and I felt I just messed it up. He told me I complained too much and everything he did was never enough. Since that time things have changed I don't feel that same admiration I felt from him before. I started looking at myself because this is not the first time I heard this from a boyfriend. Then I thought I need attention. I am craving attention I did not receive as a child. I thought how can I give myself this needed attention. I went to google and this article popped up. It nailed the problem on the nose. I wanted my boyfriend past and present to provide me with everything I did not receive. This article was a blessing and I believe it too was sent by God. I do my best to follow up on the reading The Road Less Traveled by Scott Peck and will continue to pray that I am able to fulfill the Joy and Happiness I need for myself. Thank You. This was great. I recently met the man of my dreams that I believe was sent by God. He came into town to spend a couple weeks with me and I felt I just messed it up. He told me I complained too much and everything he did was never enough. Since that time things have changed I don’t feel that same admiration I felt from him before. I started looking at myself because this is not the first time I heard this from a boyfriend. Then I thought I need attention. I am craving attention I did not receive as a child. I thought how can I give myself this needed attention. I went to google and this article popped up. It nailed the problem on the nose. I wanted my boyfriend past and present to provide me with everything I did not receive. This article was a blessing and I believe it too was sent by God. I do my best to follow up on the reading The Road Less Traveled by Scott Peck and will continue to pray that I am able to fulfill the Joy and Happiness I need for myself. Thank You.

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